From Awareness to Action: Your Handbook for the 16 Days of Activism in Sydney

by lereveaustralien.info

The 16-day campaign, initiated by the United Nations (UN Women), commences on November 25, (International Day for the Elimination of Violence against Women), and concludes on December 10 (Human Rights Day). This period symbolises a collective effort to eradicate gender-based violence globally. Sydney actively engages in the campaign with events organised by local NGOs, councils and community groups. Join rallies, webinars, and social media campaigns to raise awareness. Connect with organisations like Fullstop Australia and WAGEC for resources, training, and volunteer opportunities

Unraveling the Complex Web of Gender-Based Violence

Gender-based violence in Sydney and Australia more broadly is a pervasive issue that encompasses various forms, including domestic abuse, sexual assault, and harassment. Recent statistics from the Australian Bureau of Statistics reveal that approximately one in six women and one in sixteen men have experienced physical or sexual violence from a current or former partner since the age of 15.

Domestic violence, often concealed behind closed doors, remains a significant concern. In Sydney alone, numerous cases are reported each year, with many more going unreported due to stigma and fear.

Sexual assault is another critical aspect of gender-based violence in Sydney. The #MeToo movement has brought attention to the prevalence of sexual harassment and assault across various industries, sparking conversations about consent, accountability, and the need for cultural change.

Understanding the intersections of gender-based violence with race, class, and LGBTQIA+ issues is essential for a comprehensive approach. Indigenous women, women from culturally diverse backgrounds, and members of the LGBTQIA+ community often face additional barriers when seeking help and support.

In Australia, ongoing efforts are being made to address gender-based violence through the National Plan to Reduce Violence against Women and their Children. This plan focuses on prevention, early intervention, and support for victims. However, challenges persist, and there is a continued need for community engagement, education, and advocacy to create a society free from gender-based violence

Join marches and rallies to amplify voices

Participate in the annual marches against gender-based violence across Sydney, mostly organised by local councils. These events not only raise awareness but also fundraise for support services.

More organisations and councils may organise marches and walks, feel free to add details to the comments if you are aware of any other rally in the Sydney region.

If you are attending any of the walks, wear something orange to support the theme of the campaign — wearing orange represents a brighter future, free from violence against women and girls.

Need inspiration for protest signs? Check out some ideas here.

Honour Survivors and Remember Victims

Vigil at Martin place
28 November – 12.30pm

At Martin Place, the Empty Shoes vigil is an evening dedicated to honouring survivors and remembering victims of domestic and family violence. Guest speakers, including Australian Country Singer Amber Lawrence, will share stories fostering unity and support. The display of 52 pairs of shoes symbolises the shocking reality of one woman lost to domestic violence every week in Australia. Visit the Lou’s Place website for details and ways to contribute.

Bay Side Council Family & Domestic Violence Reflection Garden
Opening on 7 December – 6:30pm

In support of the “16 Days of Activism Against Gender-Based Violence,” the Bay Side Council invites you to the Family & Domestic Violence Reflection Garden, a space dedicated to awareness.

Visit the Bay Side Council website for event details and additional information. This initiative is part of a collective effort to end gender-based violence, and your participation helps make a difference.

Educate yourself: Exhibitions, events and books

Explore a wealth of educational resources offered by non-profit, government, and educational institutions in Sydney to empower yourself with knowledge. Attend workshops addressing critical topics such as consent, bystander intervention, and the impact of violence on mental health, fostering the ability to challenge harmful attitudes and behaviours.

Events and Exhibitions

  • Sexual Violence Awareness Symposium hosted by Full Stop Australia (PAID, special price of $25 for students): Hear from leading experts and survivor advocates about preventing and responding to sexual violence in New South Wales. The event will feature panel discussions, presentations and networking. Book your ticket.
  • Safe Space – an art installation by Shelley Watters (FREE): Immerse yourself in the thought-provoking art installation “Safe Space” by Shelley Watters, exploring themes of safety and vulnerability. Learn more about the event.

Books

  • See What You Made Me Do by Jess Hill (2019)

Investigative journalist Jess Hill exposes the perpetrators and systemic failures perpetuating domestic violence in “See What You Made Me Do.” This compelling work, published in 2019, delves into the harrowing experiences of women and children subjected to abuse, often exacerbated by a justice system meant to protect them. Hill argues that effective change is possible not in some distant future, but immediately. Through a combination of thorough research and compelling storytelling, “See What You Made Me Do” challenges conventional thinking on addressing the urgent national crisis of domestic violence.

  • Motherwound by Amani Haydar

Amani Haydar’s “Motherwound” recounts her profound personal tragedy when she lost her mother to domestic violence at the hands of her father. The book explores Amani’s reevaluation of her parent’s relationship and the inadequacies of the justice system in addressing emotional abuse. Amani, a lawyer, also grapples with the weight of familial and cultural contexts, including an arranged marriage and intergenerational trauma. Through eloquent storytelling, “Motherwound” reflects on female resilience, and the role of motherhood, and empowers survivors to find their voices.

  • Grace Tame: The Ninth Life of a Diamond Miner by Grace Tame

The book narrates the life of Grace Tame, an Australian of the Year in 2021, who courageously spoke out about her experience with child sexual abuse. Grace’s story, shared in her own words, offers a poignant and inspiring account of resilience, strength, and the power of using one’s voice. The book reflects Grace’s intelligence, deep emotions, and humour, providing a constructive and optimistic vision for a better future.

  • Fake Love by Nova Gibson

Nova Gibson sheds light on the insidious nature of narcissistic abuse and the devastating realisation that the love of a narcissist is counterfeit. Drawing on a decade of experience working with victims, Nova offers comfort, knowledge, and practical strategies to help individuals identify, navigate, and survive toxic relationships. The book compassionately explores the behaviours of narcissistic abusers, including gaslighting and pathological lying, while providing hope and support for breaking the toxic cycle and healing.

  • Invisible Chains: Overcoming Coercive Control In Your Intimate Relationship by Lisa Aronson Fontes

The book addresses the subtle and destructive dynamics of coercive control in intimate relationships. The book helps readers recognize controlling behaviours, understand the origins of this pattern, and assess the potential for change in their partners. Fontes, drawing on professional expertise and personal experience, offers guidance on protecting oneself and children, finding support, and taking necessary actions to regain freedom and independence from coercive control.

Podcasts

Explore a curated list of podcasts by the Sexual Assault Network: SAAN Podcast Series.

Other great podcasts you can listen to that are not on this list:

  • There’s No Place Like Home: An award-winning podcast centred on survivors of family violence. The latest season delves into the nuances of warning signs, from love bombing to financial control. Listen here.
  • The Trap: Hosted by Jess Hill, this podcast explores love, abuse, and power, examining the persistence of domestic abuse and seeking solutions. Learn more.
  • DV Assist Podcasts – Unbreakable: Featuring Lisa and Lindzi, the “Unbreakable” podcast sheds light on family and domestic violence, with a focus on regional, rural, and remote Western Australia. Learn more.

Documentaries and TV Shows

  • You Can’t Ask That – Episode on Domestic Violence (ABC Series): Gain insights from survivors’ experiences with domestic violence through this episode of the ABC series “You Can’t Ask That.” The series, available here, offers a powerful platform for survivors to share their stories, contributing to a broader understanding of the impact of domestic violence.
  • Safe Home (SBS Drama): Delicately examining domestic violence with nuance, integrity, and care, the SBS drama “Safe Home” provides a powerful portrayal of this sensitive issue. For a nuanced exploration of domestic violence, interested viewers can learn more about the series here.
  • See What You Made Me Do (SBS Documentary): In the documentary “See What You Made Me Do,” investigative journalist Jess Hill explores crucial topics surrounding domestic abuse, posing significant questions about how to enhance the safety of women and children while holding perpetrators accountable. For an in-depth examination of domestic violence issues, the documentary is available here.
  • Asking for It (SBS Documentary): Investigative journalist Jess Hill continues her exploration of societal issues with the documentary “Asking for It.” This instalment delves into the contemporary sexual revolution, aiming to usher in an era of ‘enthusiastic consent’ in the face of an epidemic of sexual violence in Australia. For a thought-provoking perspective on this critical issue, the documentary can be viewed here.

Prevention and responding to gender-based violence

Develop your knowledge and understanding to advocate and create safer spaces by participating in workshops, training and actively reading resources to prevent gender-based violence and support survivors-victims.

Training

  • Domestic and Family Violence Prevention Workshop for Allies (FREE): Attend a comprehensive workshop on November 25th, from 10 am to 4 pm, aiming at empowering active bystanders and allies. Explore details and register here.
  • Public Awareness Workshops (FREE): These workshops, offered by DV Alert, vary in date and time. Check their website for details.

Resources

Identifying and Responding to Victims of Gender-Based Violence: Read this insightful article from the Department of Communities and Justice, NSW for guidance on identifying victims and providing support.

Resources for survivors-victims

Resources to support someone

Other resources

  • Global Call for Prevention and Elimination of Violence Against Women and Girls: SWSPHN actively participates in this global initiative.
  • Male Champions of Change:
  • Our Watch:
    • Our Watch is a national leader in the primary prevention of violence against women and their children in Australia. Explore their key frameworks.

Everyday advocacy and activism

Explore tangible steps for meaningful engagement during the 16 Days of Activism against gender-based violence in Sydney. From challenging stereotypes on social media with local hashtags and advocating for comprehensive sex education in schools, discover practical measures that empower individuals to make a tangible impact. Explore concrete ways to contribute to the ongoing fight against gender-based violence.

  • At Work:
    • Initiate conversations about gender-based violence during workplace discussions.
    • Advocate for workplace training sessions on recognising and addressing gender-based violence.
    • Encourage the inclusion of gender-based violence prevention in corporate social responsibility initiatives.
    • Volunteer time or skills for workplace initiatives addressing gender-based violence.
  • At School:
    • Propose the integration of comprehensive sex education programs that address healthy relationships.
    • Organise awareness campaigns within the school community.
    • Advocate for school policies that actively combat bullying and harassment.
    • Volunteer or donate to school programs promoting gender equality.
  • On Social Media:
    • Share informative content, articles, and statistics about gender-based violence.
    • Use relevant hashtags to amplify the reach of awareness messages.
    • Engage in discussions, challenging stereotypes and promoting respectful behaviour.
    • Donate to organisations working on gender-based violence awareness.
    • Share your knowledge and insights on gender-based violence through blog posts or articles.
  • In Friends Circle:
    • Foster open conversations about consent, healthy relationships, and gender equality.
    • Share your knowledge and experiences during discussions.
    • Support friends who may be experiencing or have experienced gender-based violence.
    • Volunteer time or resources to support friends in need.
  • Share Knowledge and Invite Discussions:
    • Organise discussions and forums to share knowledge on gender-based violence.
    • Host book clubs focusing on literature that addresses gender equality and violence.
    • Share knowledge acquired during training sessions and workshops.
    • Engage in conversations with peers, encouraging awareness and understanding.
  • Create Art:
    • Express support through artistic endeavours that convey messages of empowerment.
    • Share art on social media platforms to reach a broader audience.
    • Donate art or participate in art auctions to raise funds for gender-based violence causes.
  • Support initiatives as business
    • Participate in local walks or events supporting the elimination of gender-based violence.
    • Encourage businesses to actively engage in the 16 Days of Activism, promoting a safe workplace.
    • Volunteer time or services for organising or supporting events.
  • Ask Your Local Council to Do More:
    • Write letters or emails to local councils, urging them to take stronger measures against gender-based violence.
    • Advocate for community programs and resources addressing violence prevention.
  • Email Your MP:
    • Reach out to your Member of Parliament, expressing the importance of legislative measures against gender-based violence.
    • Request support for funding and initiatives aimed at prevention and victim support.
    • Donate to political campaigns or initiatives supporting gender-based violence prevention.
  • Donate to Shelters and Support Organisations:
    • Contribute to local shelters and organisations supporting survivors of gender-based violence.
    • Financial donations, clothing, and essential items are often appreciated.
    • Volunteer time or services at shelters or support organisations.